Ministry Work

Informal ministry as a pastor's spouse for 33 years; specifically enjoy one-on-one conversations about spiritual matters; have led many retreats and spoken at community and church events; currently doing an 8-month internship in my church in the area of spiritual formation; licensed by the Church of the Brethren in February, 2008.

Interests

Enjoy gardening and am in the process of creating a backyard prayer labyrinth for neighborhood use. Enjoy the "God's hospitality" aspects of tea parties and offer inspirational/educational tea history presentations.

Calling

At age 12 I responded to an invitation to follow Jesus in my local Mennonite Church. During college I learned about the power of the Holy Spirit for daily life and discipleship. My first call was to "minister to the minister" when I married my pastor husband. I have offered a listening ear to individuals for many decades. When I learned about the ministry of spiritual direction I felt an immediate interest. I finally had a "name" for what I had been doing, and there was further training available! As I debated whether to attend seminary a friend wrote me an email: "I came across a new term in my reading last night," she said. "It's 'anam cara'. It means 'soul friend'. That's what you are to me." Since 'soul friend' is often used as a term for a spiritual director, this word from a friend gave affirmation to my interior calling. As I have practiced giving spiritual guidance to a number of persons, I have found many holy moments when God's presence was undeniable. I am continually awed at people's life stories and their struggles of faith. My goal as a spiritual director is to direct their attention to the REAL director - God. I am companion and soul friend on the journey.

Ideal Ministry

My ideal ministry situation would be to work in the area of spiritual formation full time. I would like to continue meeting with individuals as well as lead retreats and help plan congregational events for spiritual growth.

EMS Comments

I began my first course toward my 2008 seminary degree in 1990! For nearly 18 years I have taken a course or two most years while working full time, raising three children, and giving support to my pastor husband. I think I know the seminary well! In November 2005 I also began working at EMS full time, so that gives me an "insider" view as well. I have found the personal relationships with professors as well as with other students to be life-changing. There are many things I will remember from particular courses, but even more valuable is the network of people to call on when future questions and situations arise. I have found an openness to discussion of every ethical and theological question, but also genuine care for ME as a person and as one answering God's call. There is respect for my voice here.

Favorite Course

One of the more challenging courses for me was a theology course with Brenda Martin Hurst. I realized that even at my age and stage of life, I had not defined my personal beliefs in many areas. Now that I have sorted through these things (such as that we are made in "original blessing" rather than "original sin") I find myself sharing about them with my directees and in a sermon I recently delivered. I have a solid theological foundation that continues to be open to new insights as I grow.

Thoughts for Someone in My Position

If you can't attend full time, attend part time. Eventually you will get the degree. You are never too old to use your spiritual gifts, which are NOT necessarily tied to your vocation. They are lifetime abilities given to you for the good of the Body of Christ, and should always be used and nurtured.

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